‘What About My Mortgage!?’ How to Plan Your Dream Wedding and Also Avoid Crazy Costs

Planning Tips

Planning a wedding can be an exhilarating and joyous experience, but it often comes with a hefty price tag.  However, there are practical ways to save money without sacrificing your dream day. In this blog post, we will use some popular questions and statements to explore five creative and budget-friendly tips to help you plan a memorable wedding without breaking the bank. Additionally, we will discuss what steps you can take if you find yourself having already overspent.

‘If I Really Want That Supplier, Does Budgeting Matter?’

The Short answer is ‘yes’. The first and most crucial step in saving money while planning a wedding is to establish a realistic budget. Sit down with your partner and carefully analyze your finances. Determine how much you can comfortably allocate to your wedding expenses without jeopardizing your financial future. Once you have a clear idea of your budget, stick to it. Avoid temptation and the ‘urge to splurge’ on unnecessary items that don’t align with your financial limitations.

‘I Must Have A Summer Wedding!’

Wedding venues and vendors often charge a premium for peak wedding seasons and weekends. Consider having your wedding during the off-peak season or on a weekday. Not only will you have more bargaining power when negotiating with vendors, but you’ll also find that prices are significantly lower. Additionally, explore non-traditional venues such as parks, beaches etc. These alternatives can be just as enchanting and provide a unique touch to your special day.

‘I Have to Invite Everyone, They Helped Raise Me!’

 Trimming down the guest list can have a significant impact on your budget. Every additional person adds to the cost of catering, seating, invitations, and more. Be selective and invite only your closest family members and friends. Every other guest can be invited for the evening portion of the day i.e they wont add to the cost per head but you can enjoy their company! Remember, it’s the quality of the company, not the quantity, that truly makes a wedding memorable. If you find it difficult to narrow down your list, consider having an intimate ceremony followed by a larger reception, where you can celebrate with a wider circle of acquaintances.

‘Can I Have Fun, Meaningful and Bespoke Souvenires At My Wedding?’

Of course you can! Unleash your creativity whilst saving money by incorporating do-it-yourself (DIY) elements into your wedding decor and party favours. From minimal floral centrepieces to Electronic invitations and hand written notes, there are numerous online resources and tutorials to guide you through the process. You’ll not only save money but also add a personal touch that reflects your unique style. Enlist the help of friends and family to make the DIY experience even more enjoyable and memorable.

‘Will Guests Have A Good Time Even if there is No Alcohol?’

Alcohol expenses can quickly escalate. Consider limiting the bar options to save money. Instead of an open bar, why not opt for a limited selection of beer and wine or even a signature cocktail? Alternatively, you can have a pre-paid limit put towards the bar after which the cash bar for additional drink options would be in effect. These alternatives are great options for allowing guests to enjoy themselves without straining your budget!

‘Oh no! I Have Already Overspent On My wedding budget what do I do?’

If you find yourself in a situation where you have already overspent on your wedding, don’t panic! take a deep breath!….Unfortunately, if you have paid deposits and made full payments, it’s unlikely you would be able to get all the money back (dependent on each suppliers contracts and policies). However, there are steps you can take to mitigate the impact on your finances:

  1. Re-evaluate Your Priorities: Identify the areas where you have overspent and determine if any adjustments can be made. Consider scaling back on non-essential items such as extravagant fresh floral arrangements. Try silk floral and candle alternatives or reducing the size of the arrangements. Also, you can leverage on your network of family and friends for your cake, transportation, souvenirs etc. Every little contribution helps. Focus on what truly matters to you and reallocate your remaining budget accordingly.
  2. Seek Professional Guidance: Consulting with a financial advisor or planner can be immensely helpful! Get yourself a Planner that understands your needs. 


Our team of expert planners understands the importance of crafting unforgettable moments without breaking the bank. From luxurious destination weddings to intimate ceremonies, we bring our global expertise to create dream weddings that don’t drain your pockets. Trust AFTR to transform your vision into reality. Your love story deserves a celebration as unique as you are. Let us handle the details while you focus on cherishing every moment.

If you are in need of a wedding planner who fits the bill   we would be delighted to hear from you. We have planned several weddings at many stunning venues and home residences before (previous weddings we planned ). You can get in touch with us by filling out the inquiry form on our Contact Page.

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